I’m also in the European market, and this is absolutely not my experience. They ARE allowed to ask questions and see if they can help you on the spot. It is if they are unable to help you in this way that the rights you quote come into effect.
Because you appear to be asking them to start off with step two. Step one is for them to attempt to help you in-situ. (See the example of my GF’s Lenovo - again, also European market. Netherlands, in this case.)
What you should do, in full compliance with European regulations, is to let them attempt to resolve the issue. If they are unable, THEN you have the right to get it sent for repair or replacement. In the case of Framework - I am very annoyed at them and their inefficiency and opacity, but they are not objecting to sending replacements. Indeed, the replacement of the replacement is currently heading to me, without me having even sent the original unit back yet.
To quote the articles you shared regarding EU regulations:
If goods you bought anywhere in the EU turn out to be faulty or do not look or work as advertised, the seller must repair or replace them free of charge or give you a price reduction or a full refund.
Note: this does NOT say that you shall be able to send them the item, no questions asked, and no interaction for troubleshooting. I feel you’re acting under a misapprehension of EU regulation here. They ARE able to ask you questions, ask you to furnish images, data, or other evidence to help them understand the issue. (I’ve worked customer support. The amount of times people want to RMA shit because they didn’t understand they need to install drivers…)
Further, I am very confused at the idea that you purchased a laptop sold specifically on the USP of user-repairability, but… you object to anything other than sending the whole thing over somewhere? To my mind, it sounds like you want a Mac. (And perhaps here the problem lies: are you operating under habits instilled by purchasing items that are not in any way user-repairable? If my main machine - a Desktop - has a fault in the graphics card, there is no way for me to inspect it without doing things they say I shouldn’t do. Thus: sending it is the first step. In this case though, you CAN and the whole reason for the laptop to exist - the USP - is that you can.)
The whole forwarding thing on the other hand does sound weird. Something is off there, maybe ask them to specify exactly why they believe what they believe.