Why can’t everyone just calm down and get along.
- it is near impossible to get someone to change their mind about something,
- one can voice their opinion, but don’t expect it to change anyone else’s behaviour.
- only they, themselves, can change their behaviour. Normally, that only happens if they learn something new.
So, the only way to effect change is to describe things in a way that let’s other people learn new things, if they wish to.